Le 29 novembre 2016, 04:13 dans Humeurs • 0
1. When you want to end your toxic relationship
You stay in toxic relationship for the sake of your partner only. It literally means that hurting his feelings is bad while hurting your own feelings is absolutely okay. However hard you may try to save the situation, toxic relationships are always doomed. So the earlier you break up the more time you’ll save. Trust me, your guy feels your indifference, pretense and torments and most probably both of you will feel better separately. Don’t regret the wasted time, make advantage of the experience and start a new life alone.
2. When you want to stay at home
Being at home alone is very important to me since I need some me time to recover after a busy week and just enjoy the sanity and silence of my home. But I have some friends who try to get me out to save their evening. I bet every person has a super social fellow who enjoys loud music late at night or who just keeps talking too much. I’ve realized that I don’t have to think up any excuses or lie about how busy I am. ‘I don’t want’ is already a good reason to stay at home. Moreover, you should feel okay to limit your communication with people who bring you down.
3. When you don’t want to celebrate holidays
Each time it comes to my birthday or Christmas or any other big holiday, I feel a little bit stressed. When I grew up I started valuing my time. I know that there are some people in my life I want to spend time with. And it would be very dishonest to pretend that I’m happy to see all those kinsfolk and fellows when in reality I’m not. I’ve been celebrating my birthday with my nearest and dearest only for many years. People resented not being invited to celebrate and I really felt guilty at first. But after all, it’s my holiday and I want to spend it with my close people.
4. When you want to change your job
When you have a really good job and a good boss and colleagues, you might find it dishonest to quit your job. The feeling of guilt and betrayal is even stronger if you plan to leave during a busy period or if you’re a valuable employee. You put off the decision till the next month and the situation repeats over and over. Even though it feels awfully uneasy, you should be determined when it comes to your future. Once you make a decision, you should stick to it.